We know that the first important step in achieving success is deciding exactly where you want to go in fertility, birth, breastfeeding and beyond. Being very clear about what you really want in your fertility and pregnancy helps you to take steps in that direction. That is the way the brain works.

Supporting Your Fertility, Pregnancy and Birth Success

Another factor that influences your success in fertility, pregnancy and birth is the kind of support you have in your life.

‘You are the average of the five people you spend most of your time with’ (Jim Rohn).

So if these people doubt your fertility or ability to have a safe, empowering birth for example…this will have an impact on your experience (subconsciously or otherwise). Do the people you spend most time with believe in your body’s wisdom and health, in your capacity to enjoy pregnancy and a safe, gentle birth with ease? Do they believe in the possibility that you really can thrive in your fertility, relationship and parenting regardless of your experience until now?

Stepping into Your Own Power

Surround yourself with people who share your vision.

Join local or on-line groups. Hire a coach and a doula. Read books that support you in the direction of your dreams. Tune into empowering radio and t.v. shows. And give yourself the permission to take a break from relationships and conversations that are going in another direction.

You are the master of your life. Every discussion is bringing you closer to or further away from the success you desire in your fertility.